Common Ground
For couples who argue more than they'd like

Fight less, repair more.

A private space for the two of you to cool down, say what you need without the sting, and find your way back to each other.

Free during early access. Each of you uses your own account.

How it works

Two accounts, one shared space

Make your account

Sign up with your email, then start your shared space. You're Partner A.

Invite your partner

Send them your private invite link. They make their own account and join as Partner B.

Use it when it matters

Reach for it when things heat up, after a fight, or for a calm weekly check-in.

What's inside

Something for each stage of a fight

Argument reset

Pause, name what you're feeling and what you need understood, breathe, then restart gently.

I need space

Take a break with a clear time to come back, so stepping away doesn't feel like walking out.

Guided talks

Answer the same questions privately, then compare side by side and talk it through with a guide.

Repair room

Check whether you're both ready to move on, build an apology that doesn't make excuses, and agree what changes.

Weekly check-in

Look back on the week, set goals and agreements together, and park issues for a calmer moment.

Your patterns

A private log that helps you spot the cycle you keep getting stuck in. You choose what, if anything, to share.

Privacy and fairness

Built so neither of you is "the problem"

Private means private

Your log, drafts and safety settings can only be read by you. That's enforced by the database, not just hidden in the app.

No blame labels

It never calls either of you narcissistic, avoidant, toxic or "the problem".

No surveillance

No location, no online status, no reading messages. No ads, and your data is never sold.

Leave whenever you want

Either of you can leave the shared space, or delete your account and your data, at any time.

If you're afraid of your partner

This app is for couples who argue, not for relationships with abuse, threats or control. If you're scared of your partner, your safety comes first. The app's Safety page lists helplines, and a button covers the screen with a plain notes page.

In danger right now? Call 999 (UK), 911 (US & Canada), 000 (Australia) or 112 (EU).

About the guidance

The exercises draw on common couples approaches: timeouts, soft start-ups, taking turns to speak and listen, and repair. It's not therapy, and the guidance hasn't yet been reviewed by a qualified relationship professional. If things feel stuck, a couples counsellor can help.

Try it together tonight

Free while we're in early access. One account each, and nothing is shared until you choose to share it.